Allyship:

Poem written by: Sean Mauricette

Allyship, how are you caring for your co-worker?
While at work, voices curt…that’s when I overheard the… words…all part of a phrase.

Unconscientiously bias that repeats in my mindset for days.
Words I hear normalized, to the point I’m no longer phased.
See, I didn’t speak up nor intervene and didn’t want to get involved.
Two colleagues plus me passing equals 3 parties with no resolve.
The recipient, the bystander and person committing the harm.
Feeling I should have been an ally but was not equipped to sound alarms.
Tensions high I realized, I found comfort in withdrawal,
perhaps I should have said something, but what I chose?…was to say nothing at all.
I could have checked in and let them know, I’m a safe space for them to land.
Actively listen, provide support to my colleague, co-worker and overall friend.
With training wrapped around me, I can look back at my reaction,
speak up in a way that doesn’t inflame, rather than standard bystander habits.
See that’s the difference, countering bias when you’ve learned how to listen.
Reading the room, is it a microaggression or the amplification of ones own privilege?
While every situations dynamic,
we see tips of icebergs, the top only one third, of complexities that feel titanic.
Comraderies that are different, with some who are willing to listen,
ally’s can offer advice, but if beyond?...seek management to express your feelings.
Of course they are your ally’s too,
Ones who can separate intent from impact, and be a support to you.
Not always easy we know,
but what’s paramount is proper workplace culture therefore.
Lean on or be someone to the ones who need it most,
As we care for our co-worker, those vocal and silent, let the seeds of allyship grow.